But that’s succeeding in spite of your emotions, when it’s far better to thrive because of your emotions. Acknowledging and Accepting Your EmotionsĪ common coping mechanism for leaders is to push through stress, fatigue, and fear. Finally, the fourth stage involves building a support infrastructure to help you manage your anxiety over the long term. The third stage entails making smart decisions and leading others in anxious times. The second stage is taking action to manage it both day-to-day and in challenging moments. The first stage is learning to identify your anxiety: how it manifests itself and how it feels. So today, in this especially anxious moment, let’s begin. It can break down barriers and create new bonds.
When channeled thoughtfully, anxiety can motivate us to make our teams more resourceful, productive, and creative. We may also be more comfortable with uncomfortable feelings. Data shows that anxious people process threats differently, using regions of the brain responsible for action. The good news for those of us who have managed anxiety for a long time is that we were made for this moment. These numbers will only increase in the wake of the pandemic. And recent workplace data from Mind Share Partners, SAP, and Qualtrics suggests it’s widespread on the job: Nearly 37% of workplace respondents reported symptoms of anxiety in the past year. Globally, according to the Institute for Health Metrics and Evaluation, an estimated 284 million people had an anxiety disorder as of 2017, making it the most prevalent mental disorder worldwide. Data from the National Institute of Mental Health has indicated that about 30% of Americans experience clinical anxiety at some point in their lives. In the United States, anxiety is the most common mental illness, affecting more than 40 million adults each year. And sometimes it’s about something that will happen in three minutes (stepping onto a stage to make a presentation, for example) or in 30 years (having enough money to retire).
Sometimes that fear is rational and sometimes not. Anxiety is a reaction to the stress.” Anxiety is fear of what might happen in the future.
The form of anxiety has changed, but the experience remains relatively the same.” In other words, even though humans today aren’t chased by predators, we are chased by uncertainty about the health of our loved ones, whether we’ll have a job next week or next year, whether our company will go bankrupt - worries that provoke the same neurological and physical responses.Īccording to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, “Stress is a response to a threat in a situation. Psychologist Rollo May first wrote in 1977: “We are no longer prey to tigers and mastodons but to damage to our self-esteem, ostracism by our group, or the threat of losing out in the competitive struggle. How can you lead with authority and strength when you feel anxious? How can you inspire and motivate others when your mind and heart are racing? And if you hide the fear in an attempt to be leaderlike, where does it go?Īnxiety, of course, has a purpose. He was supposed to be the face of calm, but he was terrified. One evening back in March, my husband said to me, “I’m so scared, but I can’t let all the people who depend on me see that.” He had been on hours of Zoom calls, trying to convince his staff and colleagues that they would get through the crisis. Founders, executives, managers, and employees have seen how fragile everything they’ve built has become - almost overnight. Versions of this scene have been playing out across the world over the past few months as Covid-19 cases rise and economies shut down. But she’s despondent, anxious, and just plain scared. In 30 minutes she needs to lead a videoconference to reassure her employees. Just yesterday her leadership team made the tough but crucial decision to send everyone home to work for the foreseeable future. It’s rush hour, but the streets outside are quiet, and so are the 600 empty cubicles outside her office door. The CEO of a startup is sitting in the office space she recently leased for her fast-growing company.
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